Deadbeat daddy to be
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Author: Tabb M
Started: June 8, 2005, 6:49:59 pm
Target: Tabb
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Let's say you're pregnant and your baby daddy does nothing for you, the whole pregnancy. He has not gotten a job,given you money, wont even get you a glass of water and expects you to fetch for him.He leaves the city to go to school for almost a year, yet thinks it's fine that you had to put school on hold. Instead of getting a job to help you and the baby goes to school and raves.

It is now 9 months later and you are due any day now. He decided school is over i want to be back together and be a happy family. you want nothing to do with him but he insists your the love of his life and he wants to be with you. He claims he WAS selfish and wants to do better yet still wont get a job and just wants to cling to you though unwanted.He decides I want to be there now and go on famiyl outings with you and the baby. He is told many times you are no longer a couple, you are just a sperm donor now,you had 9 months to prove yourself and did nothing.

What would you do? File for sole custody and child support, then making the baby a ward of the court? Not fully your child anymore? File for a restrainign order to keep himaway until he finally moves on and you can raise your child on your own w/help from your family? Or have him "taken care of" being as he wont take no as no? Post your advice,thoughts and whatnot. bearing in mind he still wont get a job,still does drugs,drinks,and has anger problems. All of which my sis does not want around her child.




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Mr. Jim Jones said 03/11/07, 4:05 am (verified)
Yeah, ask advice from one stupid bitch telling another stupid bitch what to do.
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Lisa said 03/11/07, 4:02 am (verified)
hopefully he is dumb since he's obviously persistant. even if you have to move to another country, get the heck away from him FAST. an order of protection is just a stupid piece of paper and the police and prosecutors don't take it seriously when it is violated. if you leave BEFORE filing for custody, then your face won't wind up on a milk carton, but it will once he slaps you with a court order or you get one yourself. good luck to sis
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anna said 08/16/05, 4:41 pm (verified)
Get the protective order and get away from him. He is not going to change and it will only affect the child. Similar situation happened to me, I've been raising both kids for 4 years now. He never pays child support on time, close to $11,000 in arrearage, got supervised visitation which he does not take advantage of, was told to take parenting classes which he will not do. He feels since I won't get back with him, he is punishing me by not seeing our children. He fails to realize HE is the one missing out on their life. It is tough, don't get me wrong and I do struggle but we are so much better off without him. My children were 1 & 2 when he left, they don't even know him. Cut all ties now before your children get dragged through years of wondering if daddy is going to show up for visitation, wondering if daddy is in jail for drugs/drinking/beating up Mommy.... GOOD LUCK TO YOU!! Stay strong and you will make it. Your child will thank you when they are older and realize the struggles, sacrifices and heartache you saved them from.
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Evie said 07/01/05, 2:40 am (verified)
ya, he's stupid, get rid of him, he's a bad person. You've givin him enough chances. Let your family help. Good luck 8)!
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Kimmi said 06/08/05, 6:49 pm (verified)
Raise the child on her own with the help of the family. She doesn't need a man to take care of her. He can't anyways because he has no job and hes a bum that trys to stalk her. Family is good :)
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