ok i do think its good to enjoy life but just because you dress a certain way dosent mean you can enjoy life i have met lots of down to earth goths that enjoy life they font just sit at home or the cematary writing depressing poems or go to the church of satan they acualy go out do stuff and if you meet a goth who always depresssed mopey a cutter and worship satan and all the other steryotypes then that goths is a try hard poser who want to fit in because of the steryotypes and the poser trys hard to fit in. and a nother thing is i even hate whiney mopey people you cant judge the person on looks or style. fuck it i give up explaing you hates are just to stupid to lisen what i or anyone else have to say enless they argree with you so thiers no point to argue with a comple buchbag so fuck it