I once served as a soldier in Vietnam. Luckily for me, I treturned physically intact, but not mentally. My orignal squad was killed off completely in the same day, via RPG and machine gun fire. The wounded were sometimes left on the battlefield when only death awaited us if we lingered. these poor men rarely survived, only to become prisoners of war. In the years after it ended, I asked myself, who is to blame for it all. It's not the men, and its not the women. It's the government, and the media, the same can be sid for almost all arguments, including feminism